One of the best ways to enhance a relationship is to make creative and thoughtful moments for both the person in your life to let the person know exactly how you feel. 

These ideas can only come from the heart and when they do, it is sure to keep that honeymoon feeling there to stay.  Whether it be a wife, fiancée, girlfriend or even first date, it is always important to understand your surroundings and know the basis of your romantic and charming capabilities. 

Even when thinking a situation might not be the greatest and that what you’ve been given is lacking (i.e. setting, environment, situation, etc,) do not jump to conclusions.  All that this means is that you have to dig a little harder into the life of the significant other to find out what can be done with what you are given.

Apart and Missing Each Other:

Now let’s say a couple is physically separated from each other for an extended period of time.  This could be due to a certain job restraint, military order, attending separate colleges, or simply living in different areas for any reason.  On the outside, this is obviously a downer and it would seem as if the relationship can not be as good as it would if the two were together.

Instead of moping around be active and think.  A little effort into a relationship never hurt; in fact it makes you feel really good that you’re able to express your feelings to them in certain ways.

If you’re away from your loved one, think of certain things to do that would make the two of you feel closer to each other.  Send her a bouquet of her favorite flowers.  Hand write a letter to send to her, maybe include a picture or two.  You could even address the letter to “That Special Someone,” or whatever creative name they might enjoy.  It’s the little things that add up.

Being physically apart from each other doesn’t necessarily mean there’s nothing in the relationship to enjoy or there is no way to express your love for them, it just means the setting is changed and some adjustments need to be made.  Think about what the person would enjoy most, and then think of how you can give that significant other what they want. 

Together and out of Your Norm:

Now what if the two of you were either living or visiting a particular area that was a tad bit out of your comfort zone or not exactly a place that includes everything you’re used to?  Once again, hope is not lost.

Let us take college for example, keeping in mind that it applies to more.  Whether you are in a college setting, vacation getaway, or have recently moved locations, the mindset has to change in a relationship. You won’t be able to have many of the favorite date spots, or clever romantic ideas that you did before.

First, being in college with your significant other can be quite an experience.  Apart from figuring out how much time to spend with each other, how to balance class work with play, and how to handle any other sort of learning experience that comes up, it is a must to keep the relationship as wonderful as always. 

Be sure to take note of all of the things, from extravagant to simplistic, that the two of you most enjoy together.  If you put your mind to it, and you have absolute certainty that you are head over heels in love with the one you are with, thinking creatively will come with ease. 

It is always good to pick a comfortable, quiet spot on campus that you know the two of you can enjoy.  This creates one of those “our spot” scenarios that always end up beneficial when needing a place to be alone.

One thing that has always proved to be a charming and thoughtful idea for me is to use the element of surprise.  At least for my girlfriend, a clever surprise is always a g